If you are a Christian parent of an adult Child who has left your life recently, let it be known that this is an ongoing situation happening very often. There are many reasons for this and it's all demonic in nature. If the devil can influence our adult kids to see us as small, unimportant and unloving individuals...in order to break down the family, disrespect and dishonor the parents who raised them and loves them unconditionally.... what do you think their kids will do to them? They obviously do not believe that they do anything wrong and if they did do something wrong, it would not be nearly as bad as our asking them to not ignore us while sitting in our home. I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but the devil is a liar and I have seen literally thousands of Christian mother's in a social media group I'm in, with broken hearts due to their adult kids arrogant and abusive behavior. We as Christian Moms and Dads, are in spiritual warfare and need to pray and fight for our Adult kids.
Am I saying we are all perfect?? NO. For the most part, these parents have made some mistakes but have tried to make things right and nothing is good enough. Many are not even sure what they did! I'm not here to make excuses for anyone's behavior but I am saying that 99% of the moms who are going through this for no major apparent reason that would be good enough for their adult kids to choose to never speak to them again...love and forgive their kids unconditionally. It's our adult kids who are loosing out so much by walking away. We will never walk away unforgiving and not giving grace to our kids because that is how God made us.
Yes, it's painful but our concerns should be more for what is spiritually going on with our kids that made them choose to walk away. We, as parents, will do everything that we can from our end to make things right. Let's continue praying for our kids that God would infiltrate their heart to do the right thing. If they are hurting for any reason, we pray that God would heal their hearts and emotions.
Isaiah 49.25
Ephesians 6:1-4
Below is a link to a video of my testimony how God set me free! It's on my youtube channel and needed to share this.
This is my Mom who passed away in April of 2025. She was my influence and why I was ready to finally surrender to Jesus! Love you Mom!
This is a very interesting time in our society. Our country is changing drastically. Unfortunately, not for the good. There are many reasons for this and I won’t get into every reason that I can see now. I just want to share my experience because I see that I am not the only one going through this.
As I mentioned before, I’m in an Estranged Adult Kids for Christian Moms Facebook group with over 10,000 members! It is so overwhelming to go through the posts, especially now that God has healed my pain. It is a very large thing in our society now. Not just Christian families either. My heart goes out to every single one of these moms who can’t figure out what to do and are in so much pain.
So, I have 4 adult kids and 1 is estranged due to her husband’s influence. My son is the youngest, and he loves Jesus. He is close with me and my husband. The other 2 are distant for different reasons. Regardless, my 3 oldest are just not wanting to be in my life. My only hope is that God will restore our relationship and bring them back to God first and then myself.
Unfortunately, online social media resources speak of parents today as unimportant and even the smallest issue should be treated as a norm to distance themselves from us for protection. This is so wrong and evil.
We need to pray hard that God will release the strongholds over their lives. Remove the scales from their eyes to see the truth, the love that God has for them, and how real God of the universe is. Do not give up! Do not allow horrible thoughts to take over your mind. God is with all of us moms for comfort and support during the trials and tribulations. The moment you allow evil thoughts from Satan himself, to overtake your mind, He wins. We do not want anything or any evil spirit to lie and deceive us. Stand on God’s Word and promises, no matter how you may feel today. Let’s do this together!
Are you having issues in your marriage and not knowing how to fix it? Are you ready to give up? Let me give you some tips that will help you...
First, answer this question. Why did you decide to marry your spouse? What drew you to them? Did you see yourself growing more in love for one another for the rest of your life? If not, then maybe you both need to rethink and start fresh with your motivation for marriage. If your answer is yet, then pay attention...
God said in Genesis 2:24 and Matthew 19:5 that man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall be one flesh.
What is One flesh? You both are a TEAM, as husband and wife. You and your spouse have different qualities that merge together so you can build a successful family and live in harmony. Your team environment really means that you work together to build your family and life. You love one another and encourage one another. You comfort and support each other in all things. You are NOT 2 separate people who just live different dreams and outcomes. You are best friends who listen to each other, care about one another's ups and downs and want the very best for them. You are not living 2 separate lives in one house with occasional love making to fulfill your desires and then move on to your separate lives again. You are one flesh.
God designed marriage to be this way because He knew that we would be raising our kids and our family with future grandkids who become our next generational family.
That's why God said in Ephesians 5:22-25 Wives, submit to your husbands, as to the Lord. The husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the church and He is the savior of the body. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her.
1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them in understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
So, we need to honor each other. Respect each other and care about one another's needs. Be grateful toward your spouse when they do something for you. Be appreciative of their support and care for your needs. Be a good listener and understand their hurts and concerns, whatever those may be. Be humble and apologize when you are wrong. Period. True love will want to do this. Be present when they are talking to you. You are ONE flesh. You are a TEAM that needs to stick together during the storms of life and not pull away. Forgive each other and be gracious.
Pray for one another. Pray together. Put God first and I promise, you will want to love your spouse more. Loving God enables you to see your own shortcomings and desire to do better in all parts of your life.
